Mary and Max (2009)

Mary and Max
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Mild themes and sexual references

Director: Adam Elliot
Actors: Toni Collette, Philip Seymour Hoffman, Eric Bana, Barry Humphries, Bethany Whitmore, Ian 'Molly' Meldrum

Mary and Max is a claymation feature film from the creators of the Academy Award-winning short animation Harvie Krumpet. It is a simple tale of pen-friendship between two very different people; Mary Dinkle (Bethany Whitmore), a chubby lonely 8-year-old girl living in the suburbs of Melbourne, and Max Horovitz (Philip Seymour Hoffman), a 44-year-old, severely obese, Jewish man with Asperger's Syndrome living in the chaos of New York. Spanning 20 years and 2 continents, Mary and Max's friendship survives much more than the average diet of life's ups and downs. Like Harvie Krumpet, Mary and Max is innocent but not naive, as it takes us on a journey that explores friendship, autism, taxidermy, psychiatry, alcoholism, where babies come from, obesity, kleptomania, sexual difference, trust, copulating dogs, religious difference, agoraphobia and much much more.

DVD
Status: QuickPick
Run time: 90mins
Origin: AUSTRALIA
Aspect Ratio: 16:9
Pen friends forever
by Simon Miraudo, 14/04/2009 4:38:00 PM

The universe that is inhabited by Mary and Max is breathtaking, and must have required years of painstaking attention to detail to forge. The story however, is magical, and animating talent aside, could only have been created with love and lots of it. Oscar-winning director Adam Elliot has carved an identity for himself as a kooky Clay-maniac, but his debut feature is spectacular for much greater reasons than the stunning animation. It’s a touching tale of friendship; a quirky slice of Australiana; an unflinching account of mental illness; a hilarious and devastating animated masterpiece. And it’s probably the best Australian film of the decade. The film is based on Elliot’s own twenty-two year pen-friendship, and it shows. A relationship this brutally honest and insightful could only be ...

The universe that is inhabited by Mary and Max is breathtaking, and must have required years of painstaking attention to detail to forge. The story however, is magical, and animating talent aside, could only have been created with love and lots of it. Oscar-winning director Adam Elliot has carved an identity for himself as a kooky Clay-maniac, but his debut feature is spectacular for much greater reasons than the stunning animation. It’s a touching tale of friendship; a quirky slice of Australiana; an unflinching account of mental illness; a hilarious and devastating animated masterpiece. And it’s probably the best Australian film of the decade.

The film is based on Elliot’s own twenty-two year pen-friendship, and it shows. A relationship this brutally honest and insightful could only be imagined collaboratively. Mary (Toni Collette) is a lonely, overweight, 8-year-old girl growing up in Melbourne, Australia. Her mother dips a little too often into the cooking sherry, and her father spends most of his time stuffing dead animals in the shed. She’s tormented by the poo-coloured birthmark on her forehead and the subsequent bullying it attracts at school. Desperate for a companion, or at the very least someone to answer her multiple existential questions, she picks a random name from an American phone book and sends them a letter.

Mary has serendipitously chosen New Yorker Max Horowitz (Philip Seymour Hoffman), an obese 44-year-old man suffering from Asperger’s syndrome. If anyone in the world is as confused, lonely and desperate for a friend as Mary, it’s Max. The two bond quickly, and truly, as they fire letters back and forth across the continents, combined with odd chocolate concoctions for the other to enjoy. Sometimes their blisteringly truthful and literal responses send the other into a tailspin. There are suicide attempts, nervous breakdowns and even a manslaughter charge thrown into the mix. Is friendship really worthy all this pain?

This year alone, Philip Seymour Hoffman has portrayed a priest accused of sexual molestation, a raucous rock and roll DJ and a neurotic playwright obsessed with his own mortality. Throw in his nearly unrecognizable vocal talents as Max, and you have all the evidence necessary to call this man the greatest actor of our generation. The intonation in his voice; Max’s raspy certainty in Every. Word. That Comes. Out. Of. His. Mouth. The wheezing nervousness that could be one wheeze away from a full-blown breakdown. Whenever he's not on screen, you pray for more narration from Max as he types his long letters to little Mary.

And here is the inherit problem with Mary and Max that keeps it from being an absolute classic. The film is ALL narration. The characters only speak in voiceover when the contents of their letters are being read. An unnamed narrator (an excellent Barry Humphries) describes every other event and emotion not covered in the letters. Elliot has written less of a film, and more of a storybook. As the film ticks past the 30 minute mark, it becomes apparent how little narrative tension there really is. However, Elliot IS a good screenwriter, and his dense characterisation is funnier, sweeter and truer than that seen in most live action films. These are just nitpicks that come with the territory, and for what it’s worth, I feel terrible for raising them. The narrative finds its way in the final half hour, and the film moves so quickly you’ll be hard pressed to remember any complaints you may have held.

Mary and Max isn't exactly a kid's film, although it's exactly the kind of film more kids should see. The film's message of friendship and identity are so true, and so effective. Mary and Max deserve to go in the pantheon of great animated heroes, and the film has also earned its place amongst other truly great animated films. Part of me thinks, “Imagine what Elliot could do with a live-action film!” Then again, there are plenty of great directors and screenwriters working with real human beings, with varying levels of success. There’s only one Elliot, and he’s the only one who could have made Mary and Max. So, more films like this please.

4.5/5

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Member Reviews (38)

38 Member Reviews
jog
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When it first aired on SBS i caught the end. Glad to finally see it. TOTAL AUSTRALIAN FILM. Love it
Posted Thursday, 7 February 2013 See my other reviews
Candice Martin
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Loved it...it was different and querky and very entertaining and funny
Posted Saturday, 2 June 2012 See my other reviews
Altcare
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Loved this! Very sweet and the animation was excellent. Lots of Australianisms, some you have to be quick to see. Good viewing when you want to watch something light.
Posted Tuesday, 22 May 2012 See my other reviews
Glenda
says
Touching, very clever. An enduring sentiment.
Posted Saturday, 11 February 2012 See my other reviews
EK
says
Very sweet. Very well done.
Posted Tuesday, 10 January 2012 See my other reviews
Su
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Wonderful animation, beautifully done and a great story line
Posted Saturday, 24 December 2011 See my other reviews
Tyler
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fairly amazing film. The animation matched the movie perfectly and it was as realistic and thought provoking as it was depressing.
Posted Tuesday, 1 November 2011 See my other reviews
Vortex000
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I thoroughly enjoyed this film - quirky and endearing - interesting look at the human condition, and those who live on the outside.
Posted Sunday, 4 September 2011 See my other reviews
Kelly
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This was a magic australian film. I loved it considering it had humour and saddness. It was a very 'interesting' movie and the annimation fantastic. My kids even loved it. And watched it a few times. Even though it looks a little 'dark'. I really enjoyed it. I would like to own this one, i could watch it again.
Posted Wednesday, 17 August 2011 See my other reviews
Teesha
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What quirky lil movie, made me laugh, made me cry! If you like sweet condensesed milk this one is for you...
Posted Monday, 1 August 2011 See my other reviews
Susannah
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witty poignant and funny. I recommend this one
Posted Friday, 24 June 2011 See my other reviews
MichelleB
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Fantastic animation. Characterization excellent. An absorbing look into the relationship between the 2 characters, lives worlds apart, who developed a strong bond through sharing their lives, their experiences and their loneliness. Fascinating also to hear the director's commentary on the film.
Posted Monday, 25 April 2011 See my other reviews
R.McEvoy
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through. This movie is so Australian, I LOVE IT. The movie is funny most of the time, you can tell its Australian humour. The movie over all sweet the characters are fun to watch. But the movie is very dark in places and sad I have no idea at how this movie became PG. funny, sweet, dark only Australians can make a GOOD movie using those ingredients.
Posted Saturday, 29 January 2011 See my other reviews
Janie K
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sweet and funny - dark in places, loved the Australiana touches.
Posted Sunday, 23 January 2011 See my other reviews
Trish
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Absolutely gorgeous with incredible attention to detail. It was the little things that made me laugh.
Posted Tuesday, 16 November 2010 See my other reviews
K.Youla
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This was fantastic. and an insight into the psche and the unusual relationship between two unlikely people who keep each other going... loved the australian icons at the start, a really good movie.. you forget you are watching animation...it is so deep.
Posted Monday, 15 November 2010 See my other reviews
musicmum
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You gotta love Adams creativity! A great film, touches on the human nature like no other film i have seen, even my 9 year old enjoyed it. Recommended for all 'clay animation' fans.
Posted Thursday, 4 November 2010 See my other reviews
Carm
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Great story. Funny, quirky, sad, moving and very clever. Loved it!
Posted Monday, 18 October 2010 See my other reviews
Ian
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Almost guaranteed to bring a tear to the eye. Very sweet movie from the maker of the academy award winning aussie short "Harvey Krumpet".
Posted Friday, 6 August 2010 See my other reviews
Global Shopper
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Absolutely brilliant in every way. A beautiful, quirky and funny story. Fantastic production. Heart warming.
Posted Friday, 6 August 2010 See my other reviews
emily
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rather depressing and tries a bit too hard to be funny. says it was based on a true story..ok. but somehow it doesn't work. a lot of work (animation) gone into this film but doesn't make it very memorable or thought provoking.
Posted Wednesday, 7 July 2010 See my other reviews
Holly
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I loved this very clever film. It had so much heart. I was glued to the screen for every second. Brilliant!
Posted Saturday, 3 July 2010 See my other reviews
BA
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Quite a sad movie but in the same time there is a light in the darkness. I like the ending.
Posted Monday, 7 June 2010 See my other reviews
Linda
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Oh my, what a load of rubbish! Turned it off probably 1/2 hr in because I was so bored and I'm normally somebody that sits through anything!
Posted Monday, 31 May 2010 See my other reviews
Jayde
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What a fantastic film, i personally thought that it was very different and un predictable. i would rate this as more of an adult style film and not so appropriate for younger viewers. i think this film is best reserved for a rainy day and don't forget your box of tissues.
Posted Tuesday, 25 May 2010 See my other reviews
Andrew
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Absolutely loved this - the funniest and saddest movie we have seen for some time. Loved the Australian feel to it and the level of detail that Adam Elliot puts in is just amazing. A great example of Australian ingenuity, humour and story-telling, which makes it a must see!
Posted Thursday, 20 May 2010 See my other reviews
jonny
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Sad and funny but it get a little tiring in plaster seen.
Posted Thursday, 29 April 2010 See my other reviews
Sam T.
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like this. wasnt the ordinary film. touched on subjects that are close to my heart. will rent again definatly. :)
Posted Thursday, 25 March 2010 See my other reviews
Sarah G.
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Absolutely wonderful. Top rating. Though complicated at times, and some of the words during the movie hard to read (maybe because my tv is so small) I loved it. Heart warming yet sad. Easily to relate to. Good flow to the movie. Not like Wallace and Gromit (funny comedy claymation). Very serious down to earth and not for little ones. Ps. I love the letter M now
Posted Wednesday, 24 March 2010 See my other reviews
EmilyJ
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I loved this film. It was quirky and funny and had a lovely story. At times sad, as it looks at the lives of both Mary and Max.
Posted Wednesday, 17 March 2010 See my other reviews
Leah
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Brilliant!!!! This has got to be one of the best movies I have seen in a long time. Excellent work my aussies!!!
Posted Thursday, 4 March 2010 See my other reviews
Michelle
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I loved this movie! I've watched it 3 times (and I never re-watch films except for The Castle!). It had everything for me, brilliant animation which I fell in love with, well developed characters, humour, squirkyness and sadness. It captured my heart. I must say Mary made the film for me - the most loveable character in a movie that I have ever seen!
Posted Thursday, 25 February 2010 See my other reviews
Meg G.
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Weird
Posted Wednesday, 24 February 2010 See my other reviews
Megan
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Loved this movie, such a beautiful, poignant and insightful story, the clay-mation was amazing. Loved everything about it.
Posted Sunday, 7 February 2010 See my other reviews
Heather
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A beautifully written, crafted and shot little masterpiece by the king of claymation, writer/director Adam Elliott. It's all about friends... Touching, heart-wrenching and poignant - not to be forgotten for a long time.
Posted Friday, 29 January 2010 See my other reviews
Crozzo
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Lost interest around the half way mark, apparently, according to family who watched it, we should have stuck with it, as it improved in the second half. Having said that, we couldn't get into it because of the "figurines" used instead of actors. It was written like a list of events and didn't play out like a movie ought to, because basically plasticine figures cant act! I'm sure it was an interesting story of the two pen friends however i think it would have worked better with people playing the parts. Sad ending(I'm told)
Posted Friday, 13 November 2009 See my other reviews
Caryl M.
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Nice surprise - quirky, yes - also sad, sweet, and funny. Similar to Wallace
Posted Saturday, 7 November 2009 See my other reviews
Sebastien W.
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I may try to watch this one again sometime - I literally fell asleep 30mins in. There seemed plenty of opportunity for drama and a few laughs, but it relied too heavily on situational quirk. Disapointing.
Posted Monday, 2 November 2009 See my other reviews