I Am Love (Io sono l'amore) (2010)

I Am Love (Io sono l'amore)
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Strong sex scenes

Director: Luca Guadagnino
Actors: Tilda Swinton, Flavio Parenti, Edoardo Gabbriellini, Alba Rohrwacher, Pippo Delbono, Maria Paiato, Diane Fleri, Waris Ahluwalia

I Am Love tells the story of the wealthy Recchi family, whose lives are undergoing sweeping changes. Eduardo Senior (Gabriele Ferzetti), the family patriarch, has decided to name a successor to the reigns of his massive industrial company, surprising everyone by splitting power between his son Tancredi (Pippo Delbono), and grandson Edo (Flavio Parenti).

But Edo dreams of opening a restaurant with his friend Antonio (Edoardo Gabbriellini), a handsome and talented chef. At the heart of the family is Tancredi's wife Emma (Tilda Swinton), a Russian immigrant who has adopted the culture of Milan. An adoring and attentive mother, her existence is shocked to the core when she falls quickly and deeply in love with Edo's friend and partner Antonio, and embarks on a passionate love affair that will change her family forever.

DVD
Status: QuickPick
Run time: 119mins
Origin: ITALY
Aspect Ratio: 16:9
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by Simon Miraudo, 2/11/2010 11:28:00 AM

There is a fine tradition in Italian cinema, in which characters are doomed to pay extravagant prices for even the tiniest of pleasures. From the cursed, lower-class protagonist of The Bicycle Thief, to the tortured director at the heart of 8 1/2 ; according to Italians, the universe doesn’t dole out any good without following it up with something bad. The Recchi family at the center of Luca Guadagnino’s I Am Love are not exempt from this cinematic jinx. This rather pessimistic tradition is very much embedded in Italian culture. Having come from a (highly superstitious) Italian family myself, I’m well versed in the theory of “malocchio” (evil eye); the idea that negative thoughts - and perhaps the occasional curse - from one’s enemies can manifest as actual physical pain or outrageously ba...

There is a fine tradition in Italian cinema, in which characters are doomed to pay extravagant prices for even the tiniest of pleasures. From the cursed, lower-class protagonist of The Bicycle Thief, to the tortured director at the heart of 8 1/2 ; according to Italians, the universe doesn’t dole out any good without following it up with something bad. The Recchi family at the center of Luca Guadagnino’s I Am Love are not exempt from this cinematic jinx. This rather pessimistic tradition is very much embedded in Italian culture. Having come from a (highly superstitious) Italian family myself, I’m well versed in the theory of “malocchio” (evil eye); the idea that negative thoughts - and perhaps the occasional curse - from one’s enemies can manifest as actual physical pain or outrageously bad luck. I would call it poppycock, if only I hadn’t been raised to be wary of angering whichever force handed out karmic retribution.

There is nary a whisper of religion, rumour or spirituality in I Am Love, but I couldn’t help but wonder if the misfortune of the film’s characters was the result of some “malocchio”. Perhaps the Recchi’s were cursed from beyond the grave by the family’s patriarch Edoardo (Gabriele Ferzetti), who had left the Earthly plane wishing for his descendants to honour his name and business. Instead, they begin frowned-upon affairs and threaten to dismantle the family company to become, as one character says, “even richer”. Surely they were asking for cosmic punishment.

Much like Michael Haneke’s Hidden, I Am Love presents us with a portrait of a bourgeois family who are tortured for the disastrous crimes for which they are responsible. Partly responsible, but responsible nonetheless. The difference is that Haneke hates his upper-crust characters (going so far as to relish their slaughter in Funny Gamestwice!), whereas Guadagnino is sympathetic, even as they go about living lives driven by personal pleasure and financial gain.

Tilda Swinton - as graceful and restrained as ever - stars as Emma, the lonely wife of Edoardo’s son Tancredi (Pippo Delbono). She adores her children - Edoardo Jr. (Flavio Parenti) and Elisabetta (Alba Rohwacher) – but has grown tired of being merely a hostess for their family’s parties and social gatherings. She’s shaken from her waking-slumber after meeting Edoardo Jr.’s friend Antonio (Edoardo Gabbriellini); a chef with near-transcendent talents in the kitchen. Inspired by her daughter’s secret lesbian relationship, she toys with the possibility of having an affair of her own.

At first it seems as if I Am Love will be about a bored housewife who flees from the doldrums of her meaningless existence via a saucy affair (and it is). Most films of this nature end with the wife making her glorious escape. However, I Am Love is bolder. It features a shocking climax – one which caused me to audibly gasp “Oh My God” - that forces its characters (not just the housewife) to contemplate the terrible ramifications of their choices. Guadagnino does indeed make them suffer (Haneke-style), but then offers them the opportunity to seek freedom. Some do, some don’t. Those that do, earn it.

Composer John Adams, cinematographer Yorick Le Saux and editor Walter Fasano perfectly complement one another; they know exactly when they must be calm, and when they must be chaotic. They do so in perfect synchronicity. Guadagnino acts like a mad composer, trying to combine deliberate pacing with frenzied melodrama; fortissimo followed by pianissimo followed by fortissimo and over and over again in quick succession, as if Bugs Bunny himself were running the show. Only when the film’s shocking climax arrives – in a moment of pure pianissimo no less – does the full scope of his opus come into perspective. When the picture ends in full-blown, melodramatic, raise-the-roof fortissimo, we realise everything that had come before (the highs and the lows) was a tantric tease of a crescendo, leading up to an almighty finale. I Am Love requires patience, but it’s worth it.

4/5

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Member Reviews (19)

19 Member Reviews
Anna Coen-Phadtare
says
The film was fascinating - acting by Tilda Swinton superb. Could watch it again.
Posted Monday, 29 April 2013 See my other reviews
Cairo49
says
Tilda is always excellent, but she was a helluva lot better than the movie. It wasn't bad, but most of the characters were unsympathetic and it simply ran for too long. I mean, who really cares how the rich live?
Posted Wednesday, 21 March 2012 See my other reviews
Gandr
says
Italian subtitled movie that you'll really really have to work at. Asks a lot. Gives little back.
Posted Sunday, 12 February 2012 See my other reviews
Barry
says
The film did not hold my interest. Could not appreciate it because of film's setting and dialogue. Being unfamiliar with the detail of the film did not help. I felt had wasted my money!!
Posted Saturday, 3 December 2011 See my other reviews
Nigel W
says
A conservative wealthy family begins to disintegrate after the death of its patriarch. D H Lawrence meets Henry James in this story of repressed passion and suffocating conformity. Although it tries hard it is difficult to emphasise with these people. A movie out of its time.
Posted Wednesday, 26 October 2011 See my other reviews
Clouseau
says
Very long and drawn out. It took an hour before it started to warm up and when it did, you could guess what was going to happen anyway. It was a fairly depressing movie to watch, although it was okay. I was glad when it was finished, not a good sign!
Posted Sunday, 16 October 2011 See my other reviews
Zed
says
Love Tilda Swinton. As always she has perfected her character and in this superbly directed film she exudes both power and vulnerability. This is a beautiful, moving and dramatic tale about a family and the complexity of the relationships within it. The settings are also exceptional. From the grandiose marble mansion to the rustic cottage in the rolling countryside, Italy is dripping with romance!
Posted Wednesday, 6 July 2011 See my other reviews
Matt SR
says
The is beautifully filmed and acted. The film started out as the eldest sons story but this changes.... or does it. Tilda is stunning and so is Italy. The narrative moves slowly but is worth it the slow reveal.
Posted Tuesday, 14 June 2011 See my other reviews
jo-anne taylor
says
it was awful
Posted Tuesday, 24 May 2011 See my other reviews
melb
says
Quite a few bits of it, I just did not get, I thought I'd missed something. On watching some of it with the commentary on, I understood what they thought they were saying, but realised they didn't get it across in the film. Beautiful to look at.
Posted Friday, 20 May 2011 See my other reviews
Charlotte
says
I get the point of this movie but it was very slow and I had trouble staying awake through the 2 hours. It could have been condensed into a shorter movie to keep the audience more captivated.
Posted Saturday, 7 May 2011 See my other reviews
Liz
says
Almost brilliant, except for Tilda Swanton who was fully brilliant. Slow to start though.
Posted Friday, 29 April 2011 See my other reviews
Lauren
says
This film is suburb - a sumptuous treat for all the senses. Tilda Swinton turns in a truly formidable performance, indeed it is hard to look away from her. She outshines even the resplendent luxuries that surround her in almost every scene. We watch as her character is transformed - physically and metaphysically. It is a joy to behold, riddled with passion and grief.
Posted Thursday, 7 April 2011 See my other reviews
S Hay
says
Great cast,disturbing subject but enjoyed watching
Posted Thursday, 31 March 2011 See my other reviews
Jumbuck
says
I thought that with Tilda Swinton in the lead of a European film this would be something special - but no! - slow, ordinary, doesn't go anywhere
Posted Monday, 21 February 2011 See my other reviews
morevictorious
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This was a real 'ordinary' film.... please pick another . That is my suggestion
Posted Wednesday, 12 January 2011 See my other reviews
Deirdre R.
says
Painfully slow and not that interesting... Tilda Swinton looks surprisingly beautiful in this, and I'm sure it will appeal to some, but I kept thinking of other things I'd rather be doing.. Gave up about two-thirds of the way through, and looked it up on Wiki to see how it ended.
Posted Saturday, 11 December 2010 See my other reviews
Orlando
says
This is a great film, one I've thought about many times since seeing it. It is beautifully shot and the performances are very convincing. Tilda Swinton is fantastic. These characters have depth, they're not carried along by the plot, their motivations and choices fit with what you know about them. I really recommend this film to anyone who likes to think about what they're watching.
Posted Friday, 3 December 2010 See my other reviews
gerd
says
A bit sad when the interviews on the DVD with cast and director are more interesting than the actual movie they are talking about. Among many other worthy ambitions the film was supposed to demonstrate the emptiness of the lives of the rich. It certainly succeeded in being empty.
Posted Sunday, 21 November 2010 See my other reviews